Refuge

Refuge groups run every spring and fall. Questions? Contact refuge@idcpdx.com

Do you feel stuck in unhealthy patterns of behavior or relationships? Have you experienced trauma or loss?

Identifying pain points in your life can help you break free from anxiety, get unstuck, build deeper relationships and change unproductive life patterns. At Refuge, we find healing in community through a transformative process of self-examination, sharing, encouragement, and accountability. We strive to be a safe place where our pain and our struggles are met by Christ’s love and grace.

In the fall and spring, we offer closed groups of 4-8 people that make a commitment to each other to meet for 12-18 weeks, maintain confidentiality, and complete homework assignments.

Contact refuge@idcpdx.com for any questions.

 Refuge Groups

  • Are you tired of struggling with painful chronic personal problems or coping behaviors such as drug/alcohol abuse, sex, food, etc. “The Genesis Change Process is an attempt to provide the necessary understanding, as well as the practical tools, for real and permanent change. It is a blend of biblical principles, the science of the brain, and proven recovery strategies for not only freedom from self-destructive behaviors, but also addressing the underlying issues that drive them.” This group is offered separately for men and women.

    Watch Genesis Process Testimony: The Mio Family

  • The Grief Recovery Handbook, 20th Anniversary Expanded Edition: The Action Program for Moving Beyond Death, Divorce, and Other Losses Including Health

    by Russell Friedman and John W. James

    Updated to commemorate its 20th anniversary, this classic resource further explores the effects of grief and sheds new light on how to begin to take effective actions to complete the grieving process and work towards recovery and happiness.

    Incomplete recovery from grief can have a lifelong negative effect on the capacity for happiness. Drawing from their own histories as well as from others', the authors illustrate how it is possible to recover from grief and regain energy and spontaneity.

    Based on a proven program, The Grief Recovery Handbook offers grievers the specific actions needed to move beyond loss. New material in this edition includes guidance for dealing with:

    • Loss of faith

    • Loss of career and financial issues

    • Loss of health

    • Growing up in an alcoholic or dysfunctional home

    The Grief Recovery Handbook is a groundbreaking, classic handbook that everyone should have in their library.

  • Abuse can take on many forms: physical, verbal, sexual, emotional, spiritual… it happens in all kinds of relationships and can be overt and public, or subtle and secretive. While the details of our individual stories may be quite different, the consequences of abuse are often strikingly similar. When we experience abuse, it usually results in feelings of shame, powerlessness, isolation, and emotional detachment. Abuse colors the way we feel about ourselves and the way we relate to God and others. In Mending the Soul, we explore the nature of abuse, learn more about how it may have impacted us, and engage in a process of healing as we reconnect with God and others from a place of hope and healing. Mending the Soul is offered in separate groups for men and for women.

    The workbook is the only book required for this group. Learn more about the workbook here.

    Watch George MTS "Visible" Difference Story on YouTube

  • Why Am I Like This? How to break cycles, heal from trauma and restore your faith by Kobe Campbell

    Why does our past pain continue to affect our present?

    Though many of us can point to patterns of brokenness in our lives, we don’t know why they're there. No matter how hard we work, we can’t seem to outrun the very things that break our hearts. That's because our everyday setbacks are rooted in our unaddressed wounds.

    In Why Am I Like This? seminary-trained, licensed trauma therapist Kobe Campbell helps us understand why it’s so hard to break these patterns as she offers us a deeper understanding of how our past shapes our present. With tender wisdom, rare vulnerability, and profound honesty, Kobe reminds each reader that they’re not alone, empowering them to step into healing with evidence-based, faith-filled coping skills and resources.

    In Why Am I Like This?, you will:

    gain an understanding of what trauma and healing really are,

    explore the roots of your dysfunctional patterns,

    learn how your trauma shows up in your everyday life, and

    find trauma-informed, faith-based coping mechanisms to heal your mind and deepen your intimacy with God.

    Kobe marries theological insight with therapeutic principles to give readers the tools and insights needed to begin their journey of restoration.

  • When Faith Meets Therapy by Anthony Evans and Stacy Kaiser

    The power of faith intersects with the practicality of counseling in this unique partnership of a faith/worship leader and a therapist as they offer a pathway for readers to find help, hope, healing, and freedom while navigating life’s struggles.

    No one is immune from life’s difficulties, yet many people are reluctant to talk about mental health or seek professional help when they are struggling. People of faith who are battling issues such as anxiety, depression, life changes, stress, or relationship problems may suffer in silence, believing things will get better if only their faith was stronger, they prayed more, or they had more self-discipline. The stigma about needing to seek help is all too real.

    But seeking professional help isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a sign that someone is serious about moving forward emotionally, relationally, and spiritually. Written by producer, artist, and author Anthony Evans, along with licensed psychotherapist Stacy Kaiser, When Faith Meets Therapy

    dispels the cultural myths and stigmas that surround professional therapy;

    shares stories from the authors’ personal experiences and from others who are facing life’s challenges; and

    provides practical steps that readers can take in the pursuit of emotional, relational, and spiritual progress.

    Anthony and Stacy met five years ago when he was seeking emotional and relational healing of his own. Stacy led Anthony through a process of internal renovation and continues as his personal therapist.

    When Faith Meets Therapy contains priceless, practical knowledge to break stereotypes that surround therapy while also offering immeasurable hope and encouragement.

  • Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab

    Healthy boundaries. We all know we should have them--in order to achieve work/life balance, cope with toxic people, and enjoy rewarding relationships with partners, friends, and family. But what do "healthy boundaries" really mean--and how can we successfully express our needs, say "no," and be assertive without offending others?

    Licensed counselor, sought-after relationship expert, and one of the most influential therapists on Instagram Nedra Glover Tawwab demystifies this complex topic for today's world. In a relatable and inclusive tone, Set Boundaries, Find Peace presents simple-yet-powerful ways to establish healthy boundaries in all aspects of life. Rooted in the latest research and best practices used in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), these techniques help us identify and express our needs clearly and without apology--and unravel a root problem behind codependency, power struggles, anxiety, depression, burnout, and more.